my wife just divorced me and all i can think bout is her and our kids,,,,i want her back can anyone give me some advice??????????[cry]

Will she consider couples counseling? Even if you wind up apart seeking help with the transitions will help all of you.

If you are looking for some kind of spell to get her back, please reconsider. That kind if magic only brings heartbreak to everyone. Think of it like bring brainwashed, would you want her to coerce you to stay gone?

Try to be kind to yourself, give it time. Let us know how you're doing, here or in spiritual support.

Good Fortune.

1st dont complain or bitch about her around the kids,you think its rough for you,ha..for kids their whole world has been torn in two,let them be kids and enjoy the time with you when you have them.
All I can say is"if you love something set it free,If it loves you it will come back to you"
Sorry bro,I was almost there,more than once.

no no spells i know better than that,,,i just wanted advice,,, she wont do counciling,and i dont bitch and gripp bout her round our kids i know this is harder 4 them than it is 4 me i just love her so much i want her back in my life

hmmm... the most important aspect in this is your children... like LD said their world has been torn in two - but kids are adaptable! and will cope with it

You just have to accept it (if you are meant to be together it will happen - have faith) don't pressurise her because that will just push her further away - just go along with what she wants for now and see what happens.. but if she is adamant in her decision then theres not much you can do but keep the peace for the sake of the kids. without knowing more about the situation it's hard to comment

You still have your children & they will always be your children no one can take that away from you. and its a dreadful cliche I know (soz) but it will get easier in time.

I HAVE TO AGREE WITH CATE AND LD, I'VE BEEN THERE MORE THAN ONCE AND IF IT IS MEANT TO HAPPEN IT WILL, TIME WILL TELL. Sorry if it seems to sound blunt. I know it's painful. Love your little ones and make sure they know you are there for them no matter.

Hope your doing ok Soldier. Give yourself plenty of love. I'm thinking of you. Hope you're doing well.

well i thank u all 4 the advise but i dont need it no more im with some1 else so all is well again,,,,, blessed be[cool]

Well, I was going to post a reply about the five stages of grieving and loss that apply not only to death, but divoce, job loss,...etc. Â*Giving one's self time to grieve, and heal....however......what comes to mind now is (forgive me if I am crass), something a friend of mine likes to say, "Nothing helps you get over someone faster than getting under someone else."[wink] Â*

....... I know that everyone handles these things Differently - but after my first Divorce, it was Five Years before I even dated...... Humans, Eagles, and several of the other more highly evolved life forms Mate for Life, you know. That is not something that you get over in a fortnight. (in MY Humble Opinion) [rolleyes]