aislinnedana wrote: a 19 year old who has been with the same man for 5 years...

~Aislinn

wow,to me thats way to young to have been with 1 person for such a long time,you will need to explore ,if not now 20 years from now.(this just my opinion )I would be afraid to tell you what i was doing at 19[evil] for me even after almost 14 years with one person,i sometimes wonder,But I couldn't..because it would kill me to have her betray me.

LINN wrote:
that is very true, LD.... but, a wise man Also said "Should I fall Out of Love...... to chase a Feather in the Wind....?? "

BTW LINN,I didn't miss that quote,its nice to see others with GREAT TASTE.[smile]

In an ideal world though.... I suppose we would do our "exploration" prior to meeting the one we settle down with...

So in theory, we shouldn't need to - obviously this isn't the case as human nature won't let us not wonder "what if"

But thinking about it and actually doing it are totally different in my book... plus if you're in a "fulfilling" enough relationship, it shouldn't even be an option, but some people are just never satisfied and maybe it's a bit of an ego thing too.....

& yes LINN has excellent taste....

I think that we all develop our own "Code of Conduct", if you will... a personal list of things that we Will and Will Not Do. I try to see myself as a person of honor (probably an outdated concept, but Mine nontheless) and conduct myself accordingly.

....... and, Thank You, Cate... you are a very tasty person, yourself. [wink]

well thank you [oops]

& no way is honour (note the u!!) an out-dated concept

Not enough of it about in my opinion

I agree with Cate. Its nice to see people in the world with Honor. I think its quite rare these days. Good for you Linn.

honor and loyalty are a dying breed.
I consider myself both.
The LD you people see on here is kept on a short leash in the real world.
He's the Duke I was in my early to mid 20's. If i don't keep him leashed,trouble happens,fun trouble but trouble none the less. Don't get me wrong,he breaks his chain every once in a while.[evil]

Dukesters wine sounds real interesting!!!![wink] Love and honor are not dead yet, my honey is full of it and that makes it very easy for me to stay true.[wink]

hmm.

honey can be fun also.[evil]

"ching ching" (that was OE's 2 cents droppin on the table hehe)

I think when you are happy with somone that temptation is not there, I think we look, but the temptation is gone. But if you are single or not happy...
YEAH BUDDY! Like ducks on a june bug!
If we are gonna quote sayings... lol.. I like the one we reap what we sow, cuz the first few months after I kicked the hubby to the curb, and got on my feet, I had some sowing of wild oats going on, and I loved it!
sounds bad.. i know... but hey.. I have someone I am happy with now.. I know how to be a good girl too... lol[lol]