Hello all,

I should start by introducing myself, im Chris 35 from Australia

I am fairly new to the wiccan way but was wondering if someone knew a good spell i can use on myself to forget about a past love.

I have tried to get over her this last few months but she just hurt me so much im having a very difficult time and i really need to be free of these negitive thoughts and the hurt that she has caused (can feel myself welling up) so you can see how much i need to move on.

As i live in a small town in australia ingredience etc may be a problem to aquire so even a simple spell with candles and a picture would be good or with ingredience i could find quite easily.

Any help would be appreciated.

Blessed Be

I have a simple one that you might like to try. Find a spot that has a windy peak, or by the ocean, it should be where you can let the ashes fly. Gather some eucalyptus leaves and allow to dry for at least a week. While you are waiting for the leaves to dry gather everything that reminds you of her, or any of her personal objects that have been left behind. Go to the windy point and make a funeral pyre of all her pictures, objects as well as enough sticks to keep the fire burning and your eucalyptus leaves. Set up your circle/cone of power the way you normally do with a song, activate the watchtowers, ask your ancestors and guides for help, and whomever you consider your avatar for the goddess of love (Aphrodite is an example) for help in removing her emotional hooks into your soul. Then imagine that the passion of your feeling for her are the flame and burn up everything, keeping clear the intent is to remove all emotional hooks in your soul. When the fires are done raise up some of the ashes and let them blow in the wind. You may cry or become emotional during the ceremony, let it all free to the wind. When you are done, bury any coals and leave a flower for the goddess in thanks. Close your circle and leave her behind.

namaste,
JB

Thankyou for taking the time to write

I will give it a go and see what happens.

Thanks again

Chris

Chris,

Remember that you have to WILL it to work. IF you are holding a torch for this woman it may be difficult and you have to mentally construct during the spell "cutting the ties" she has into you. Whenever you think about her do not dwell, remember the good times and move on. I wish you luck.

namaste,
JB