Thread: slight boyfriend trouble...

okay, i do like my boyfriend and everything but lately he's been wanting to go all the way and i just don't feel very comfortable with that. so far he's been really good about it but i always feel kinda bad when i tell him no... and sometimes i feel like he's going to break up with me because of it.

I'm quite sure every woman out there is going to tell you the same thing----IT'S YOUR BODY!!!! and if he breaks up with you because of it then how good a MAN is he. Like Ms Keys says ask me if I'm ready, in so many words. Good Luck to you in YOUR LIFE not his.
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I agree with WhisperinRedd, every woman goes through this at least once & its your body. Do what you feels right. Dont feel bad he should feel bad for pushing you into goin there. If he leaves you because you say no his not the one for you & that means he just wanted you for that one thing, I think its a specail event when goin all the way with someone personally & I feel you should share yourself with only someone you truely feel is specail. Dont want your heart tells you not his two heads!

I've actually been where you are, and I didn't listen to my heart. And I've regretted it ever since. What does your heart tell you to do? That was the only reason that he wanted to be with me, was for that reason. After we did, we broke up, and I wish that I had waited. My advice to you, would be to wait for the right person. They will come along, and it will be a special thing. You just have to be patient. If he doesn't like it, kick his butt to curb!

I also have to agree with WhisperinRedd and Windora- It's your body, so you make the calls. Personally, I think that if he breaks up it you over something like that, he doesn't deserve you anyways. Clearly he's being really considerate, and probably wouldn't wanna do anything if he didn't think you were okay with it. Don't worry, be happy, and the rest will come in time!!!

It all comes down to respect, If he truly loves you it shouln't matter how far you go and he should
respect you and decesion you make.Ask any one who lost their V. They would taske it back in a minute cause they were pressured and manipulated.If you can be strong and wait for the right time it will be beautiful, but if you rush theres usually more regrets than anything else.Guys will say anything to get what they want.I'ts sad, and us women fall into those traps. Make sure he's worthy of your love