Trully Bi?

[cirus06]

Heka wrote:
i am bi and i see it as the simple love of humanity. i'm attracted to both men and women because i feel things deeper than the body. i actually call myself a "people person'. thats my "label"

i like that... i think im going to use it to explain myself... that is if yo udont mind

[Silent_Aislynn]

I have always been attracted to both men and women but as a "follow the norm" I picked guys.. truely I picked femme guys why actually turned out gay (some of them and I thought something was wrong with me).

I had my first experience with a female last year, she was hott and I fell in lust with her. we hit it off pretty well haha [grin]

I am head over heels with a boy right now but Im glad to know that hes open with the fact that I like girls. Hes actually incouraging with threesomes which makes me happy. Hes just nervous that Ill leave him for her [cool]

I believe it is genetic, people are just born by it. the TRYsexuals (love that word) the ones with the "in" crowd. I feel they go after what society gives us. I mean look, we glamorize the female body, we enhance every aspect of their curves and we dress models in bikini's in the middle of January. With a society like this no wonder trysexuals are on the rise as well as eating disorders and diminished self confidence.

Sorry about the rant haha where was I? oh yeah, I think truly Bi people are the ones who are born liking both sexes. and the ones who are the in crowd are the ones who follow the herd and do what the media tells them is "cool"

[Kinnah]

i am bi and i see it as the simple love of humanity. i'm attracted to both men and women because i feel things deeper than the body. i actually call myself a "people person'. thats my "label"

^ said it perfectly!

People are far too hung up over labels. To me, labels are just a lazy way of attempting to define someone without having to put forth the effort into getting to know them. Sexual orientation should only be defined if and when the person feels like doing so. I don't like this whole "truly bi" thing :P it's like asking what makes a true Canadian or European. There are many different perspectives on it.

Personally, I think if someone is attracted to someone else in a more-than-friends way, either physically or intellectually or personality..-y? then they're attracted to them. Doesn't matter what gender, and there doesn't have to be sex involved. You wouldn't say a straight couple who practice abstinence isn't straight, would ya? Same goes for a gay couple, in my opinion. They don't have to actually have sex to be gay.

[Joslynn]

I'm bi, about 80% lesbian 20% hetero. Those percentages change radically whenever the moon changes. lol Does that help or hinder?

[joechos]

Don't be sorry, Shi, we love fresh meat!

Ok, maybe a bisexual can technically choose which sex to date or marry or whatever, but will still be attracted to both. You can't choose who you're attracted to. You can only choose how to act on it.

I agree completely. How one feels holds a great deal of sway over which direction they take. When it comes to a life partner, it all depends on what it is our heart needs the most. In essence, no one can tell you whether you are gay, straight, bi, or even pan-sexual but yourself. Just be proud of your choice and declare it, even if it is just to yourself I personally am Bi and proud of it