Just Me Letting Out My Inter Thoughts.

It's really hard when you've been with someone for so long and you almost become one person but please, lovely girl, do what makes you happy. It might sound selfish but if I took my own advice years ago I'd be so much better off,emotionally,finacially,spiritualy and even better you are here for a reason and it's up to you to figure out what your calling is.If that interferes with a rtelationship with someone than they don't truly love,understand,respect and care about you to let you go and persue your dreams.
You have the world in your hands don't let others hold you back,trust me I've done it for to long.
Love,Rhainnoncat

Thanks Rhainnoncat I think we are just still a young relationship needin to grow as one he & I apart & together. If that makes since. But I'llbe sure to keep that in mind if things goin down down down

Make sure just remember when one person can bring you to you most worse you are the only one to bring you back. People change, grow apart, in different ways if anyone inhibits your own growth there not the one to b with.I'm not trying to be anti relationship type-girl power but When you are alone and enjoy your own company and enlighten yourself,it's the best gift than any relationship.It took me a long time to reveal this in myself, and now that i see what's going on w you, I know once you empowe ryourself and become independant he'll be different.
The men I've dated seem taken back by my knowledge and confidence it just makes them run away, but a real man will take it on and every day will be an adventure.Most men want the submissive type of girl but when you apprach them with a challenge, they run or fight it's only human nature.

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Thanks rhainnoncat. Ill make sure to keep that in mind. I know I really branching out on my own meaning My mother & I go on bike rides without him. I do my crafts alone to one with myself in nature. I do agree that we have falling apart. I just dont believe its the end for us. We have saved each other & have become one. Meaning he comes from a really really bad family. He was beating & abused & I was there for him & now he lives with me. (3 1/2 year age difference.) He saved me for when we got together I was cutting & maken myself sick to be skinny. (the stupided stuff I have ever done in my life) He took my problems as I did with his & saved each other. We've been through so much in only 3years of being together. Just feel we have lost the spark & I no it won't take much to get it back just both of us on the same track at the same time. Which isn't easy with work & school & everyday life. maybe it looks like its to late for us but I know in my heart it isn't I feel I could die without him. We've grow together so. But I so love hearing from you guys. Gives me a another look on things. Thanks for the replys